Love and fidelity cheer up in the spring of acquaintance, but sometimes the autumn is after it.
Love is an addiction. It is not you who create love, you are just involved in love. Love blows like zephyr. And goes like it. When the love's zephyr blows, rejoice and submit in it, and when it goes tell: bye.
Love is not the thing, you can keep it in the cage. Love is free. Love is a free bird. If you keep the love in the cage, it won't sing. Let it come freely, and go when it wants. Keep always the cage's door open. Why not throw the cage away? Ruin and throw it away. Watch the love's bird in the sky instead of in the cage. Then you will enjoy watching its flying more. Always think you are debtor to love. Remember those days the love's zephyr blows and you make merry in its air. Remember your songs in the love's zephyr ear. If love goes, it is doleful, but it is not sin. If you put and keep the love in the chain, you have made it as a slave, whereas freedom is love's nature. Love exists when it is free, otherwise it will not exist at all. If love comes, be happy. If it goes, say it:" O! love, you go and I'll miss you." Then, open your heart sincerely, let the sorrow come into it, but thank the love which came and went. If even love remains just for months, days and moments, it is yet love, lovely and nice. These moments with the name of memory, make your heart happy. Don’t make the one you love, slave of your expectations. Make a rainy cloud of your love and rain on it unsparingly. Let your beloved boasts under your extreme love's rain and extends him/her to the sun. Watch him/her boasting and luminosity and be happy. It is the time love stays and doesn’t go, because it feels free. Love will stay where it feels freedom. Love escapes when it sees itself in the cage. Love cannot tolerate the cage. Gibran khalil says: don’t accuse the woman of unfaithfulness, put her husband's heart on the balance before that. Perhaps the woman has escaped from the cage her husband has made. The one who wants to judge about an unfaithful woman, justice is that he/she also puts the woman's husband's heart on the balance. We should know that love and lust are not same. Lust, is part of chemical reactions of your body. Lust is related to your body's hormones. There is no morality in lust. Many people are involved in misunderstanding. They have named lust as love. They deceive themselves not others. Love is not also a habit. Love is intellectuality with no frontier. You cannot hide your love. Love is an ethereal atmosphere that will leak and smell. You also cannot hide your inability in making love. When the fire of your love spreads in you, it makes your sides warm and bright. But when the fire of love is blown out and you are depressed, your sides are also cold and dark. Coming or going of your beloved is not important, the point is that you always have a lovely and kind heart. The important part is, despite unfaithfully of your beloved, your fire of love stays thus warm and bright.
It is the human's normal right that if the love's snowy steps are heard from the behind of his/her heart, she/he opens the door to it. It is not important who is that, the point is that he/she is the pretext to make lighten your love's fire and mine. If there is love, the home is home. If there is no love, the home is prison. If love leaves the home, husband and wife will fight and argue. And they will accuse each other because of little silly pretexts. The war that is between husband and wife is because of lacking of love between them. Life is weary without love. Weariness brings depression and harshness. It is love which brings warmth, joy and pleasantness with itself into the home and places it in your plate. When the love goes from two people, it is better these people separate friendly. But many people prefer to live together and fight with rancor and disgust. When the love goes, husband and wife shouldn’t accuse each other. They should accept the fact that life is flowing and it changes continually. They also change with the changes of life. They sometimes change and yet they become fellow-travelers. And sometimes they change and separate their way and the life change consistently. It is just the death that is fixed. Jibran khalil jibran says: if one protracts his wife to judgment, he himself should protract to judgment. Because love is a river that is flowing between two shore. If the love vanishes from one of the shores, it is vanished from another shore too. No river can flow just between one shore. Love, is a huge energy, that binds between two people. If one side lose his/her love, if also the other side wants love and be eager, his/her love is not anything except lust and necessity. Be faithful to love. Beloved may come and go but the love should stay forever. Lover and beloved both should be faithful to love. If love remains for ever, it will remain, otherwise when it goes, don’t escort it by disgust. It doesn’t have any crime by its going. The feeling of taking possession kills the love. When we want to destroy bad things and people, we should know that bad things and bad people are not separated from good things and good people. Somewhere in the dark depth of the earth, their origins join and connect together.
نوشته شده در شنبه بیست و هشتم مهر 1386ساعت 11:44 توسط elnaz
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